Durga and school custodian Pat Mertens started working at Kimball Elementary School in Kimball, Minnesota, in the same year, 2011.
For the past nine years, their families have been well acquainted. Durga’s children called Mertens “Papa” as they grew up in his wife’s daycare.
It was known at the school that Mertens was on dialysis, given that the 64-year-old left school for treatment three days a week.
The school community organized a “Hats for Pat” fundraiser on January 31 to help pay for Mertens transportation to dialysis. But no one knew the severity of his health woes until his daughter, Kayla Matten, posted a plea for a kidney donor to social media that night.
“We are now in the process of trying to find someone with an O blood type and someone who is willing to donate their kidney,” Matten wrote in a Facebook post.
“Some family has been tested and unfortunately they are not the same blood type or have other health issues that restrict them from donating,” Matten wrote. “We know what prayer can do, and getting the word out there.”
Durga says she saw the post and without hesitation decided she would be the one to help.
“I’d been wanting for a while to do something big for someone. I just didn’t know what it was going to be,” Durga told CNN. “When I read the post from his daughter, I just got chills. I had a feeling it was going to be my something. I knew from that moment that I was going to be a match.”
Mertens’ wife, Lynda, shared the same feeling. The next day, Durga contacted Lynda to inform her of her plans to be a donor. “She was sitting next to her daughter and she turned and said it’s going to be Erin,” Durga said. “We both just knew.”
The transplant process was delayed when the coronavirus pandemic hit. However, they were able to move forward with virtual lab visits and appointments, and even through the mail.
On June 12, Durga found out she and Mertens were a match. She organized a celebration at his home and wore a green shirt to represent kidney disease, with “Donor” written across the chest. The two were overwhelmed by emotion.
“Pat’s not a lot for words, not a lot for hugging. But we hugged and we were just so excited, both of us, that it was truly going to happen,” Durga said. “He was going to get a new kidney.”
The transplant surgery took place on July 3. Durga says she was never nervous because she knew this was an event that was supposed to happen.
Today, both patients have recovered. And both returned to work at the school when it reopened in the fall, with social distancing measures in place. Due to the increase in conronavirus cases in the area, the school changed to a distance learning model on November 16.
Mertens says he feels amazing with his new kidney and is thankful to Erin and all his doctors and medical stuff.
“All we can say is that she’s an angel,” Mertens said of Durga.